How it Began
We met at Minerva University in 2017 as part of a new global city rotation the university was testing. By a stroke of luck, our classes overlapped—the only time in Minerva’s history. We became part of the same friend group that hung out every day, and Fran developed feelings for Ray.
One chaotic Halloween party later, Ray confessed his own developing feelings to mutual friends. On December 3rd, 2017, we decided to give ourselves a shot and started dating, much to the amusement of our friends who had watched our relationship over time.
The first night we met in Seoul, South Korea, and Fran fell head over heels with the nerdy Mexican boy.
This was our first trip as a couple to the Taj Mahal, and we knew this was more than a semester-long relationship.How it’s Going
Shortly after we started dating, our relationship turned long-distance, spanning roughly two years and multiple continents. We flew back and forth during and after semesters to visit each other every few months.
When COVID-19 struck, Fran took the last flight out of Taiwan to Mexico City, and we moved in together with just 24 hours’ notice. Since then, we have moved apartments twice, adopted a dog, hosted countless dinner parties, and grown even deeper in love with each other.
Our proposal story is one of our favorite memories. While in Oaxaca, Mexico, Ray arranged a photoshoot, knowing Fran had always wanted one. It was the perfect cover. At the Ethnobotanical Gardens, amidst vibrant blooms and lush greenery, we met up with a photographer and began our session. Ray was so nervous Fran might feel the ring in his pocket, but Fran was too busy wondering why he was so nervous in front of the camera. When we reached the most beautiful part of the garden, Ray turned to Fran, his heart racing, and began a heartfelt speech. Then, with a deep breath, he got down on one knee and asked Fran to spend forever with him.
The rest is history.
Meet Gnocchi
Amidst our journey, we welcomed a new member to our family—our beloved dog, Gnocchi Gonzalez. Rambunctious and full of energy, Gnocchi keeps us on our toes with her playful antics and boundless curiosity. Whether she’s zooming around the apartment or snoring loudly during her naps, she fills our lives with joy and laughter. We love her dearly, and she’s a constant reminder of the fun and love that defines our relationship.
